love is something you cherish,money is just paper.nonething can buy love unless its not real love.
when you have a loved one don't let anything get in the way of tearing the love apart..... Love means different things to different people though, and if two highly materialistic people find love the way they see it through buying each other things and sharing possessions, then all the best to them. For me, money most certainly cannot buy love. But I will say that it does help a relationship if the people involved are financially stable. It's just a sad fact - money troubles are one of the biggest causes for divorce. While I wouldn't base a relationship on money, I would consider it a great gain if myself and my partner were comfortable in the money department.
money cannot buy you love, it can only buy you lust, the love you think you received from the other party is actually nothing but his/her craving for the thick plies of notes sticking out of your pocket. Love is a part of your natural reactions, your feelings, your emotions, money brings someone temporary joy, of being able to buy anything, but love gives someone eternal happiness, which will always be with you, no matter how rich you are or how poor you are, as long as you love each other, and i seriously mean love, then the happiness is with you.
Of course we all want 1million dollars,but would you trade it for love?If you really loved someone you wouldn't trade the love in for nonthing. I do not know what constitutes happiness, jealousy, or moodiness. I can only define them by personal experience; what makes me happy, jealous, or moody and how others define them. Each person has their own definition, which could be defined by personal experiences or could be defined by how they were rasied during their childhood years
If love is like religion, then it cannot be bought nor can it be negotiated. If romantic interaction is similar to a commercial transaction, then love can be bought and can be negotiated (and compromised). Love seems to be similar to both, but identical to neither
In the above descriptions, love is depicted as something sacred that money cannot buy, just as money cannot buy God and cannot change normative behaviors that are prescribed by the holy religion.
However, there are also similarities between romantic and commercial behavior. This similarity is expressed, for instance, in the way that romantic partners are chosen nowadays. Modern technology, and especially the Internet, enables people to choose their romantic partners in the way they select a certain commodity. Thus, people can refer to very specific features that are not necessarily related to love. When someone writes on a dating site that he is seeking a vegetarian christian woman who is interested in African wildlife, his process is not dissimilar to the way in which he might itemize the attributes he wants in a specific commodity, such as a car.
The role of money in generating or in transacting loving relationships is expressed, for example, in the content of personal ads seeking romantic partners. Thus, the requirement that prospective partners are financially secure is often mentioned in ads placed by women. Indeed, while both men and women prefer good-looking partners, women consider other qualities, such as status and money, to compensate for looks. It is interesting to note that many men prefer a spouse who makes less money than they do and whose occupational status is lower than theirs. But this is due to men's concern about their self-esteem rather than to the issue of love. It might, however, be further indication that money and status influence the generation of love.
Money and status are certainly related to the generation of sexual desire and satisfaction. exchangeable nature of sex is also expressed in the ease with which sexual desire can be aroused by using the imagination, whether by people imagining themselves with someone other than the person they are actually with, or by imagining the person they are with to be more attractive than he actually is.
Money might not be as important to love itself, but love is hardly disconnected from reality. It is grounded in an actual framework of life, and the flourishing of this framework can depend upon having more money. This is one reason why many people would marry someone who possesses lots of qualities they admire, but with whom they are not in love.
In a fortunate framework of life, positive emotions, including love, are more likely to be generated. Extremely negative situations, such as loneliness, can also generate love, but this might be superficial love that depends more on current circumstances than on the deep, stable characteristics of the lovers.
Indeed, we are familiar with statements such as: "You don't love me; you just love my body (or my beauty, money, kindness, humor, wisdom, etc.)." This statement is voiced not only when it is concerned with features perceived as superficial, such as beauty and money, but also with regard to more profound features, such as kindness, humor and wisdom. Beauty and money are not regarded as legitimate reasons for love, whereas kindness and wisdom are more so, since they express characteristics more fundamental to us. Nevertheless, none of these reasons alone is perceived to be sufficient for romantic love. Such love requires the presence of many aspects belonging to both the praiseworthiness and the attraction of the partner.
The situation concerning happiness is similar-money cannot buy long-term happiness, but it certainly can be helpful in creating the circumstances that induce such happiness. There are indeed various studies that have found a positive correlation between income and long-term happiness. Like with love, the effect of money on happiness is not very strong and there are other factors that are even more important than money for happiness (and love). Social factors, such as marriage, family, friends, and children, are more significant in determining long-term happiness than economic elements such as job, income, and standard of living. Money, however, can improve our situation in a way that gives us more occasions for happiness.
With all these descprition it is certainly know that money cannot buy you a real LOVE......
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