Sometimes we think showing affection in a
relationship is something that has to be done in a grand style. But, it's not
necessary, simple kind gestures and support can go a long way in your partner's
heart compared to grand gestures.
No matter how you want to be shown love
in a relationship, exhibiting an act of affection to your partner goes a long
way.
Here are few ways to exhibit an act of
affection to your partner in your relationship or marriage.
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Be attentive
A partner with a calm and cool listening
ear wins the heart of their lover. There's nothing as affectionate as having
your partner listen to your rant, jokes and gusts with full attention. It might
seem little to you but it means alot to your partner. Be attentive to your
partner in all situations. Give them that listening ear.
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The act of giving
(GIFT)
Don't be a boring partner. Surprise your
spouse with a small gift when they least expect. Don't wait till it's their
birthday before you give them a gift. Nothing is too small to give your partner,
once it comes from a sincere heart.
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Use of verbal
affirmation
Research shows that; using words of affirmation on ourselves or for our partner, relieves
stress and makes them more relaxed. How many times today, have you told
your partner how gorgeous they look? A small genuine compliment makes them feel
secure and happy around you. Don't be too rigid.
Ultimately, the key to any successful
relationship is attention. Give your partner physical, emotional, spiritual and
mental attention. Most times, they just need someone to be there to support and
give them attention. Showing affection is important because it builds a healthy
relationship but don't forget to be supportive, and extraordinarily attentive.
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