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ANGER CONTROL IN A RELATIONSHIP

 

We are humans and we all tend to make mistakes at a point in our life. Same thing with our relationships. No relationship is a bed full of roses. Every love story has its own scenes of sorrow and joy.

Anger is one major thing that can't be avoided in a relationship. But partners must tread carefully in order not to hurt each other when angry. These can sporadically injure a relationship or marriage.

 

There's nothing as sweet as resolving conflict quickly and easily in a relationship. Below are ways to control anger in your relationship.

 

●       Cooling your nerves during a heated argument

This might sound easy but it can be achieved easily if constantly put into action. No matter the level of argument you and your partner is having, at that moment take a chill pill. Calm your nerves down. Stay cool headed. Don't try to reply back at every statement uttered. Just stay quiet.

 

●       Look out for your anger signs

When you and your partner are having a fight, do well to look out for your anger signs. There are some warning signs your body gives you. Like, clenching teeth and fist, pounding heartbeat etc. At this moment, just stay calm and cool. Or better still excuse yourself from that argument.

 

●       Handle your anger

You own your anger, you own yourself. You're the sole owner of your body, behavior and mind. Learn to control it. Handle your anger, like you will handle your life investment.

 

●       Look beyond the issues

As humans, there are some topics that trigger our anger reaction. Like, money, politics, religion and the likes. Different opinions will surely erupt an anger eruption,when you notice this take a break from that discussion. Or look past the issues.

Ultimately, don't let your anger control you be in charge of your anger.

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